The visitor message is in your profile my friend. Go to the top right, just as if you were going to read a PM, pull down that menu and it will show you some options. Click on 'Visitor Messages' They are kinda like PMs, however, visible to anyone who visits your profile

Just let me know if you have any additional questions.
Stetler, thanks for the words
Sounds like you may have your time zone incorrect, do you know how to change it?